Rudraksha Purchase Experience

 Since long , perhaps about 2 decades ago,I have always been attracted to Rudraksha, 

ever since I visited a gentleman,who also happened to be a priest, and a holy items trader, 

This was way back in my schooling days.

Recently it dawned upon me that I needed to upgrade my existing rudraksha mala into a more powerful combination. The calling was too strong to be ignored. All recent energy and thoughts were surrounded around this enhancement.

For those who don't know , what a rudraksha is, I'll explain.

Rudraksha is a plant bead, from a fruit, and this bead contains seeds within, which define the power /mukhi being good quality,if same as the beads within.

This is a relatively expensive bead since it's prices depend upon the number of actually accounted lines /facets / aka "mukhi" and the bead all over it has different protrusions on it.

I happened to do a long study on the availability, the ease with which I can now purchase Genuine ones, sitting at home, without having to indulge in listening to lengthy explanations, which are narrations of a make believe it or not,godly manifestations. 

Some even recite scriptures to ensure their sales of  these beads. So let's accept it as face value these are religiously sought after beads.few people swear by it too.

Try purchasing one of these online and you will understand my previous statement.

Some use fancy manifestation stories, some narrate historical and religious scriptures, some will invoke holy lucky charms, some will not do anything but supply you exactly whatever you desire to purchase, and add "free gifts" to your existing purchase.

I visited a well known local famous outlet with recently since past year or two as I recall, started these holy services of suggesting what to buy, when to wear, how to wear, what to do, what not to do, invoke the bead with the mantras, etc.

Very good  initiative for the masses I assure you.but not for me. I'm way ahead of such initiatives.

Moresoever the man of this religious counter,of this BRAND outlet , was walking in the aisle.

On enquiry he escorted me to a cabin, where in reviews of their favorite customers were printed .

Being a non conformist, I tried to act normal like a customer who is uneducated on the matter, just to see where it would lead.

In my starting line with the person in charge of the facility, I showed him my existing mala and I mentioned that I was there to purchase a 2 mukhi & a 3 mukhi rudraksha beads. 

But this suave different colored eyed man was not going to leave me, unless he knew my capacity to purchase based onc my residence address location (which I gave out honestly ) and of course ensure his  sales pitch was heard by me.

So he started in a usual enquiry manner, I found it very dubious when he started asking me questions which I replied in the negative, replying back I didn't have any such or close by problems, yet he insisted that I had those issues /problems within my body. His diagnosis of me was based on the location of my residence address and the expensive mala I showed him in my possession.

I told him I was well aware of the sales pitches I've heard many and that my reason there was to purchase a set of missing beads which were additions to my existing expensive mala, few of the beads within we're sold to me at a different location shop, by the brand owner herself, but our man was trying to ensure something else, perhaps his agenda was to find out where I stay and based on that information, make a proposal and a optional purchase.

Now this man claimed all my existing issues in life would be resolved successfully, if I purchased a expensive 17mukhi and another expensive 18 mukhi from him. When asked what if it didn't work, he couldn't offer any guarantees except that he was a student of the great Madame with whom I had interacted in the past purchase and he had belief in them. What he missed out is my belief, the customers belief ?

I saw the size and specimen, which was by far the smallest sized bead of higher facets/mukhi that I had ever held in my hands or purchased previously ever before. I was not new to this game.

Suddenly i felt like I went to visit a Travel agent asking a plane ticket for the snowy mountains, aka Switzerland, and being persuaded to visit the seashores of Dubai.

Both don't mix well, one,Switzerland is a snowy cold country, 

Dubai ,is  a sun shining country in the middle of a desert.

Then I found out he was in charge of that "franchisee shop and the store counter made commission on sales,AHA, .everything made sense now, the persuasion even came to a limit where he mentioned it was a Saturday, day of the gods that ruled the mukhi bead that he had suggested me to purchase from him. He even mentioned stock availability was limited and that he somehow had one piece in store for my purchase facilitation. I said thanks but I would revert to his Madame, ask her opinion of this recommendation and if she says so then why was it not mentioned  in our earlier interactions?

If she too was off his opinion, I would definitely return for a purchase I assured him.

He reverted back that if I was not ready to purchase, If not both pieces, I was adviced to buy one expensive bead at a time and instantly then and there because  it had to be,because my entire future depended on it.

So I big goodbye to that possibility and continued  in my pursuit to enhance my existing beads necklace with the missing /required beads, for it to become a Siddha Mala, a highly auspicious configuration of 1 to 14 mukhi ,quality sized rudraksha beadsof Nepal origin.

Sitting in my car , on my ipad I stumbled upon another dealer showroom who was nearly by, straight upfront and like Larry Winget ideology did what he said, in the manner he said, at the price he said.

I purchased my highly expensive 3 beads purchases from that store, (approximately $1200 in US currency ), received one relatively priced bead for free and in the process made an acquaintance with a straight forward business man who doesn't use "mumbo jumbo" nor religious incantations to push sales. 

His pitch was simple. I ask, he advices and supplies the same with options. I made my choices and he made his sales, I completed my configuration of "a siddh mala" nearly after 20 years of belief in rudraksha's power.  I'm a happy customer and much happier to wear my siddha mala.

On a side note , I'm not a Hindu, But yet , i do believe and respect all religions. Like Larry Dossey mentioned Sir Arthur Eddington's Quote :-" Something Unknown Is Doing, We Don't Know What."

Secret Language Of Your Name

This is a title of a book written by Neil Koyelmeyer & Ursula Kolecki,

 I have interestingly read this book, and normally i do not like reading small print.

None of the reviews of the internet were of much assistance to me and seeing this book I feel I must write a note about it.

Nowadays most reviews are same, unless it is a widely publicized book,

I feel such but that is another story. Most reviewers normally  cut copy paste the existing available matter on the subject.

I experienced this same phenomenon at time of purchase of " rudraksha"beads also.

Same literature gets repeated and repeated, which means a lie repeated few times finally becomes accepted as truth. LOL. Isn't this true?

This book will require simple reading, but it is not a easy read at all.

I'm still confused about the "grid". It is confusing but I shall continue my pursuit to understand my numerological influences.

Most parts of this book are very interesting, simple to understand.

As I understand the book,mainly there are 6 spheres of influence.

This is the main subject matter , unlocking of the mysteries of the name and birth date, 

Few spheres are derivations of the  date of birth, while

rest/ other spheres are derived from the name, full name,vowels and consonants within.

The first few chapters on the spheres  were not at all confusing at first read, but 

As I said to myself "If you want to understand the workings of the world, you must at first understand your own working".

Most of the revelations are concise, precise  I  have definitely understood my own actions 

and why I do things in a certain manner, they gave more clarity and were simple to understand.

As per this book my relevant spheres of influence are as follows :-

1st Sphere of Personality is 1, supported by 2 & 8

2nd Sphere  of Destiny is 3.

3rd Sphere of my name is 6. :-defining my personality & talents.

4th Sphere of Expression is 1.

5th Sphere of Inner person is 5.

6th Sphere of Outer person is 5.

What do these numbers mean ? To a person who has never read this book, it's just a numerical value of vibration.

To those who read this book, it will mean much much deeper than understanding one's own self.

Like I said before  "If you want to understand the workings of the world, you must at first understand your own working".

Go ahead buy this book, find out what the science of numerology can reveal about your own self.

I certainly did.

Spoon Bending Experiment Result

"Something Unknown Is Doing We Don't Know What"

This is a must see movie.

I have seen this movie /documentary for  a couple of times and every time I'm fascinated by it.

Today I tried for the Second time the spoon bending experiment and here is the result.

AMAZING, yes I did have a little effort to it but it felt the stainless steel was malleable, and moved like a spring in my fingers/hand.

Mind Over Matter?

One more picture showing the complete spoon.

Highly recommend this experiment, and would recommend everyone to see if you this movie.

Me? I believed it, I practiced it and here is my result. Let me know your results.

God versus man, who wins? I'll laugh and smile.

Past few years I have been traveling from the sea side roads,

admiring the empty space aka the skies, and always since childhood I been thinking that cannot be empty space.

Now with the recent Nobel Peace prize work mentioning about "the God Particle " I feel validated in my thoughts.

Last few days I have been driving and at signals stopped to see and be amazed by the gods wondrous skies.

 Yesterday I posed this question to myself :-

Supposing god come down on this seaside shore, 

What will I do ?what will I show god?

So I turned to the wondrous city made of bricks,

concreted skyscrapers and the urban jungle I call 

this city as home. And I will turn to god and 

say "human kind made this " then I would smile and 

stay silent in its omnipotent presence thinking of maximizing 

my earthly benefits from gods blessings.

Selfish ain't i ?

Then it would be god's turn.

And god would turn to the blank empty horizon where the sun rises/sets and the horizon where the skies meet the seas, 

and god would whisper "I give you this" and god would laugh on my earthly face and say "I Win" and the conversation would end with me starring into the empty yet beautiful heavenly creation and whisper the scores:- "GOD One /Earth -humans Zero, God Wins".

This is where the signal became green and I laughed at gods winning hands down by any and all standards.

In the end Good and God Wins.Always.

The Last Show For The First Time

Far away from right or wrong judgements,

Distant away from me right now,

 I feel and know of a moment when we shall cross paths again,

Each one of us, you and me will meet again,

I know not what to judge or say ,

bout a distant moment that will come in alls way,

I know when my time is due,

I shall be standing either back or front of you,

Stand by my side if Judgement awaits,

The que is not front or back but sideways.

I will stand with my head and pride held high, 

until I find those who I did not abide by,

I shall stand besides kings and queens  

of past and few of today too,

But I shall point fingers at many others I promise I will identity you

I shall ask then and await your decision then,

I shall ask you  "Did you think about me, Back then ? "

Poets and lovers shall understand my words today,

If not then you shall meet me when we come across our ways,

There is a lot of sorrow of wrongs and rights included within,

This is My Last Show For The First Time.

Poarousasp.E.Mistry

Why I MUST buy books online ?

Today was a special day.

Like every other day at office leaving time, I passed a message to my car colleagues, that I need to visit a book store to purchase a book, an expensive interesting new age information book.

And if that book was purchased, I would read it tonight, all night.

Nothing more interesting in a single man's life, a book purchase , OMG I need to get married soon.

If only that would soften my miserable existence and current condition. God,are you listening?

Umm coming back to my book purchase situation. 

A senior gentleman at work, immediately asked me why I was not purchasing this book online ? I promptly replied to him as follows :-

" Sir there is no Charm of a book purchase in an online store, moresoever I'm old school, I like to browse and I need an atmosphere that is condusive to my book purchases.

Plus I am an esteemed member of a very chic bookstore.

And did I mention they also have a very chic up market cafe, where I normally run up a nice bill as well.

Everybody wins, everybody happy and I would have that book in my possession soon with a gleam on my face.

Plus I checked that bookstore online, they have it in stock available .

Smiles on faces all around. Nothing can go wrong here ?

Little me is going to the bookstore.

Kind of like, Elvis is in the building, situation happening shortly."my reply ended, my enthusiasm continued.

That was then in office, this is now, post my visit to the chic book store, eating a gingerbread piece , purchased from the bookstore's cafe, minus the book, sad face here.

You ask me "Where is the book "? I reply back "Sorry no book !"

Allow me to share the sequence of events.

I entered the book store, walked up to the counter with the fancy dumb terminal that serves as a wonder machine for search enthusiasts. This is where they enter details of your requirement and instantly claim if they have that particular item in store or not.

I requested a search for my particular book, reply received. "Sorry sir, no such book available."

Gulp! Requested please try with author name spelled out, "sorry sir no such author"

 To top it all the junior asked a senior manager with a tie,  a sort of Mister KNOWITALL who impromptu gave me a sneer look claiming he had not heard of any such author.

When I told them it is available in their store online, I was informed that is a separate department with separate stocks, not their lookout.

Hooray for Internet, after this post , I shall be making an online purchase from the same store only online, and hey icing on cake is, it has 24% discount offering over the Maximum retail price.

Some other night I shall read that book, -10 days waiting period.

And now someone ever wants me to author a book ?

Staying Single versus "being in love"

There was a time for a few years, when I was happily in love with a girl who at that time of my life was "the most beautiful girl in the world" to me. Today I beg to differ. Then our relationship ended, my rich fulfilled life dissolved into a mess. If it was a mess before, the break up made it messier.

Then came a second time when I got loved by the "sweetest girl in the world" and gave a cleanup to the existing mess.And then there is a time now when I am single again.So why is it everyone I know, every one you know, everyone that they know are happilyy in love, happily married and I am not yet married?

I feel may be when one is in 

Over, they give so much they forget to expect ? Or is it the other way around that happened to me?

I took so much I forgot to give?

Well in first case I gave so much I forgot to ask to receive love, all I asked was faithfulness, and the matter ended in a couple of years.

In the second case I took so much I forgot to give love. I expected everything to happen in its own time and place, nothing happened except break up.

Why a, I writing these words. So that in case the reader goes through a similar or worst situation than I am going through (being single is a qualified situation) then someone can refer to my words and seek solace as moments come by.

There is a tendency to expect and to give. but both do not coexists. At times we take, at times we give and we do it so synchronously it seems both coexists.

If the opposite person meets our desires, loyalty starts, if the ether person lacks in any way, we choose to look the other way.

Love is a strange conceptual existence, makes humans and animals and birds and even god do strange things at stranger times at strangest moments , in short it is inconceivable

Yet it is something that  has to be experienced.

So here I wish you all a very happy feeling of love and good luck in the moments ahead. 

Tick tock tick tock, the silence remains, you will be loved and you will fall in love, some time somehow, somewhere, with someone. Until then stay good, stay nice, stay contented. 

When was the last time you were ready to fall in love ?Look at the stars in the sky they shine so bright, look at the darkness rise and fall amongst them all.

Which one is better ? The dark sky or the stars ?you decide tonight .

A non local message / Synchronistic witness.

A strange synchronicity moment was witnessed by me, today morning.
Location : my office car parking basement. The incident is better narrated as such.
It went something like this...
Last night same location my car had autocop issues, alarm blarred for hours, battery went dead, called the 24 hour helpline, they came, disconnected the autocop protection system, charged a nice bill,late night, dropped 2 colleagues to railway station, went home, slept.
Today morning:woke up, got dressed for work, went to car parking basement , stopped the car, picked up my belongings and walked away from the car and walked to the far end

Non local co relation event happened. /Witnessed by me, i heard a distinct engine "tink ", a sound effect as if one of those cars were trying to communicate with me , giving me a hint towards something. Could be one of those 5 cars i was glancing as they were all parked, locked ,empty, yes i checked all empty.
The smokent i heard the "tink", i shifted my internal reference point to the sound asking myself what is trying to communicate, whats the message here?
I stood experiencing the message trying to decipher it.
Almost as if automatic , my hands searched for the car keys in my pockets.
Simultaneously my body turned , i walked towards the car.
I found i had left the car keys in the switched off ignition slot.
Took out the key, manually locked the car and smiled at all the 5 cars, thanking them for the message. At last i understood, a non local message was sent to me.
If you have ever witnessed any such incidents, i would gladly like to hear it from you.
Write to me at poarousasp@gmail.com

Every business says they wants excellence, but who is ready to recognize or realize ?

I work in a company in a multi functional senior role.
From time to time i have worked for loss prevention (amounting in each case at a nice amount) saving the company at least a few lacs of rupees ( in our local currency).

The loss is prevented, or many a past crimes detected, policies followed and throughly investigated.

Yes i've studied law, the rest is excellence in human resources and a natural instinct.
It is also not my job KRA or any interest whatsoever.

While i completed my role to extract 4 confessions from such 4 bad people, my senior asked me as to why is it i have a 100% hit rate. .
What makes a criminal confess to me and not to others ?
How do i do it?

While i narrated the sequence of events that is followed and basics of human psychology and instinct.
What has this got to do with excellence?

1) At work?
Many an employee demonstrate excellence in their work structure, process, or results.
Few are good at structure, few good at passing the work around aka "Delegating".
Some are excellent in the way they present the situation, example :-every failure is a new step towards a new journey.
Few are good at sales, excellent results on time every time.
The sad part is who is there to recognize these talents ? Nuture them? Grow them?
And if such a person did exists what part of his job "Key Result Area "(KRA) basis of his job role would permit them to indulge for such activities.
And if such a KRA gets involved in work role, then human psychology would ensure a preference and partiality would set in.

The stark reality of so called businesses & professionals is everyone has their own KRA, Professional KRA or either Personal KRA or either a combination of both, 2 in 1,

What they say, they never do. What they don't say, they will always do and also find a reason to get you involved in achieving their KRA with your assistance.

Whose got time to recognize and nuture talent? NO ONE on a KRA.....

find a man who has a KRA, end of excellence, its a concept of give and take.
you give this, i give you that in return.

2)Personal, in our own lives?
Are you aware how many good qualities your (husband or wife as your gender be ) possess?
Are you aware of these same good qualities of your own parents?

Chances are you said a big "NO" immediately first then realised hey yes yes they have this quality...and such and so on.

Bit i am pretty sure if i posed this same question to you in the negative enquiring about their bad qualities , you would say (he /she has this bad annoying disgusting habit .... And your description of these qualities would be exhaustive.

What has this got to do with excellence? If you cannot recognize excellence how would you seek it in the first place and if, perish the thought, excellence was served to you on a Gold Platter you would still continue your descriptive search for your meaning of how it should be, not what it is , even though in front of you.

Everyone wants to comment on the grass thats greener on the other side of their corporate fences, who wants to water their own gardens ?
You will never reap flowers in your own garden by commenting on the green color of someone else's lawn.
Plant your own seeds,Nuture them well and then expect nature to reap your crop, of flowers, or grass or even people in your companies.