Staying Single versus "being in love"

There was a time for a few years, when I was happily in love with a girl who at that time of my life was "the most beautiful girl in the world" to me. Today I beg to differ. Then our relationship ended, my rich fulfilled life dissolved into a mess. If it was a mess before, the break up made it messier.

Then came a second time when I got loved by the "sweetest girl in the world" and gave a cleanup to the existing mess.And then there is a time now when I am single again.So why is it everyone I know, every one you know, everyone that they know are happilyy in love, happily married and I am not yet married?

I feel may be when one is in 

Over, they give so much they forget to expect ? Or is it the other way around that happened to me?

I took so much I forgot to give?

Well in first case I gave so much I forgot to ask to receive love, all I asked was faithfulness, and the matter ended in a couple of years.

In the second case I took so much I forgot to give love. I expected everything to happen in its own time and place, nothing happened except break up.

Why a, I writing these words. So that in case the reader goes through a similar or worst situation than I am going through (being single is a qualified situation) then someone can refer to my words and seek solace as moments come by.

There is a tendency to expect and to give. but both do not coexists. At times we take, at times we give and we do it so synchronously it seems both coexists.

If the opposite person meets our desires, loyalty starts, if the ether person lacks in any way, we choose to look the other way.

Love is a strange conceptual existence, makes humans and animals and birds and even god do strange things at stranger times at strangest moments , in short it is inconceivable

Yet it is something that  has to be experienced.

So here I wish you all a very happy feeling of love and good luck in the moments ahead. 

Tick tock tick tock, the silence remains, you will be loved and you will fall in love, some time somehow, somewhere, with someone. Until then stay good, stay nice, stay contented. 

When was the last time you were ready to fall in love ?Look at the stars in the sky they shine so bright, look at the darkness rise and fall amongst them all.

Which one is better ? The dark sky or the stars ?you decide tonight .